Relationships are so sensitive,that they can be effected by some words and which sometimes ended up into splitting.Words hurts,and sometimes they leave scars which are impossible to heal.
We are not perfect and we all commit mistakes and we all did something which we wish we can take back but words once spoken can't be taken back.
It’s normal for couples to argue and to get into heated debates, but we do need to eliminate some words from our vocabulary. Communication is key for a relationship to be strong and healthy.So,here are some words you should stop saying in your relationship.
1. "You Never" - Couples always commit this mistake,by saying "you never do this or that" to each other.By saying this word " your Never", you have already put them on defense mode,because it sounds like an attack.Instead of saying like this,always say " i would appreciate if you do this or do like that".
2.Calling each other with hurtful names - Some people use abusive words while fighting,they have learned it from the movies or they might learn in their own social life.Calling your partner words like - "Bitch" or "Asshole" is not going to help through any situation.But this will only let you and your love one loss respect for each other.
3.Getting Rude for His/Her Family - By using rude words and blaming each other family for this and that will only bring distances in your relationship - this needs to be stop.
4.Threatning to Leave - Always threatning each other to leave after each and every small fight will only increase distances in your relationship.So, stop threatning your partner that you will leave him/her.
5."You can't Do this or that" -Always,telling your partner not to do this or that or do not go there,do not go out with your friends,do not spend too much money over here or there... etc.. etc.. etc...,will only show that you are trying to control your partners life and your partner will definitely split up from you after getting highly frustrated from you.
So,that is all you need to stop saying in your relationship.I hope this will help many of you to improve your relationship and i wish a happy life for you all.
Stay Blessed !
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