There's always lil-bit arguments in each and every relationship but sometimes a relationship come to an end due to such little arguments which slowly turn into major issues, which leads to BREAKUP.
It is hard for everyone to move on,but Life doesn't stop for anyone,everyone has to move on to start a new life.Here are some things you shouldn't do after your BREAKUP,which may help you to move on.
1.Pretend you are fine - The first and the main thing is that you must pretend that you fine and act normal,this will make you feel good and will not let anyone kept on asking you What happened ? BLAH..BLAH..BLAH..,and let you down and feel like you have committed a crime.
2.Cut - off all contacts with your ex - This is the main and important thing that you shouldn't do after breakup is to 'Try to contact your Ex back',this will make you stuck at one place with one person forever.So,stop contacting to your ex in any way.
3.Abusing your ex- You need not to abuse your ex what he/she has done to you,just avoid doing this.It will only make you feel guilty later on and this may start forcing you to go back to that bad person again and you will stuck to that never ending cycle and will harm yourself always.
4.Don't Dare to take a revenge - Yes,don't even dare to take revenge beacause you might be successful in this but this always bring bad and painful results for your ex and more painful for you and you might ended up your life in committing a crime or a never ending guilt.
5.Don't go for foolish things - Many people go for doing foolish things like start drinking alcohol,smoking and drugs and join bad company and sometimes some commit SUICIDE.Please,do not spoil your life for one bad person because there is many other person who love you a lot,especially your parents and you have a long life to move on.
6.Delete all Memories - Don't keep any kind of thing with you which reminds you about your ex,whether it's just some photos and videos.Just delete and destroy everything you have relted to your ex.
7.Remove from social media - Don't keep your ex aded into your social media sites.Remove and Block your ex from social media sites,like facebook etc. as it will help you to keep a distance from your ex and stop you to get indulge into old issues.
8.Stop Blaming yourself - Just stop blaming yourself for everything as a relationship is something which cannot be created or destroyed by single person.Don't blame yourself that you are just non-deserving,ugly,rude and BLAH..BLAH..BLAH..Just accept it's all over and you can't do anything now and the only thing you can do now is to MOVE ON.
i hope, this may help many of you,who are dealing with this BREAKUP condition,just make your self strong,believe in yourself(Just Be you),try the above advice and just boost your ego a lil-bit and just MOVE ON.Let me know in the comment box it this helps you or not ?
GOOD LUCK !
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